Ven. Pierre Toussaint is mentioned reasonably often in the Catholic press. But it’s been somewhat difficult for me to “get” him, other than that he was a free black hairdresser, very good and generous, and bore no grudges toward his masters from when he was a slave.
But there’s a near-contemporary account, by New Yorkers who weren’t even Catholic, from before the Civil War. It’s called Memoir of Pierre Toussaint, Born a Slave in St. Domingo (1853), and it’s online. The author withheld her name from the original printings (because she was a lady, and it wasn’t done!); but it is known to have been written by Hannah F. Lee, also the author of various historical works.
Seriously, this is great stuff. Not only does it explain a lot about his life and times, but it contains a lot of oral history in the form of personal stories and quotes, from people who couldn’t forget this man and wanted everyone to know about him. He was both a saint and a character.
The unfortunate thing is that, other than from Toussaint’s wife, the author Mrs. Lee does not seem to have collected any oral history from anyone African-American. (She admits that she just didn’t know any other black New Yorkers. Still, that’s not very enterprising, even in a world where ladies had to be introduced to strangers by acquaintances.) She does present letters from black people, so maybe it really was a logistics problem.
We do have Pierre Toussaint’s photograph, as an old man looking like a patriarch. There is also a portrait (a miniature) of him as a young man, looking like a very elegant but very tough guy. Check out the miniatures in color! (You have to hit the arrow button to see Euphemia.)
The improbable fact is that, after his owners (the Berard family) lost their fortune in a financial crash, and after his master died, he looked after his master’s wife (who owned him) as if she were his own mother or sister, and paid the bills for her, including the rent, from his hairdressing business, as well as helping her second husband financially. He also freed his sister Rosalie and his fiancee Juliette Noel with his own money, sent money to his impoverished white godmother (Aurora Berard, another member of his owners’ family) in France and her family, and looked after everybody he could find who had been a slave on his master’s plantation.
He ended up owning his old master’s house in New York, and lived in it, and even helped found a school in it for his niece. (By renting part of the house out, as an apartment, to a white schoolteacher.)
Without being openly pushy or impolite, and without being offensive to anyone, Toussaint doesn’t really seem to have felt inferior to anyone, or even have felt hobbled by his enslavement. When he was freed by his mistress on her deathbed, in 1807, he took it with equanimity — even though he had made such a point of saving his own money to free his sister and his fiancee. Other people deserved help; he just did what was needed, whether he was playing on hard mode or not.
It’s a very male attitude, I think!
After Toussaint married and freed Juliette, she was his partner in charity and in religious devotion. She apparently delighted in picking out fashionable Madras handkerchiefs and crape dresses to send to Toussaint’s godmother. She also had various businesses, including showing ladies how to tie up their hair stylishly in those Madras handkerchiefs. (As seen in her minature.) When his sister Rosalie died, and her husband turned out not to be a great father, Pierre and Juliette took their niece Euphemia home (she was only six months old), and worked to keep her alive despite her illnesses. But they were always looking for ways to help others.
One of their funnier charities was done for a Frenchman who had lost his money. They worried that he wasn’t eating well, so they anonymously sent him nice dinners with gourmet food. They were afraid that he would be too proud to accept if he knew it was from tradespeople, even the Toussaints. He assumed that his rich friends were doing this and was proud to accept such gifts of their esteem, which he told Toussaint about; and apparently Juliette found it funny enough to remember it years after.
(Of course, he might have figured it out, and that’s why he was telling Toussaint… these things are tricky.)
Toussaint was famous enough as a hairdresser in New York that he appeared as a minor character in an anonymously written novel, Echoes of a Belle (also 1853). Toussaint was described as having a “good tempered face,” wearing a “snowy apron” when doing hair, and also “small earrings.” From his portrait, he seems to have worn a black suit with a white shirt, very much like Beau Brummel.
At this time, hairdressers made house calls, and some ladies hired him to drop by almost daily. His cheerfulness and skill, as well as his good sense and discretion, made him regarded as a friend by these ladies. He followed them through all the fashions, from tall updos, to shaven heads under wigs, to crops, to Grecian curls. He was also very good with giving kids haircuts, or special hairstyles for big occasions, with “his kindly hands.”
But he also had friends among every kind of New Yorker, rich and poor, slave and free, because he truly loved all sorts of people. His English seems to have been strongly accented, but his French very high class. So you get a real mix of quotes in this book.
His wife was twenty years younger, and strongwilled. But later in life, she said that she always did whatever Toussaint suggested, because “she was not obliged to do it.” And the memoir gives an example of Juliette consulting Pierre about a small purchase, and him agreeing with whatever she said. They seem to have had a marriage of consensus. When she went to Baltimore to visit friends, he told her in a letter to stay longer if she liked, or whatever she decided, because “I love my wife for herself, not for myself.”
Pierre and Juliette’s great grief was the loss of Euphemia to a wasting disease, as a teenager, in 1829. He found purpose in organizing various charities for others, and finding needy people jobs, as well as making business plans that allowed other people to support themselves. For example, he got a French lady to start a business as a conversation partner for girls learning to speak French.
He was also known for visiting other people who were grieving, and bringing them comfort and hope. His consolation calls sometimes were totally silent; he would hold someone’s hand, and perhaps even cry with them.
He also visited the sick, including total strangers with yellow fever, even nursing them through it.
After Euphemia died, he and Juliette adopted or fostered various boys who had no parents, sending them to school and setting them up in trade, as if they were their own sons.
He seems to have talked about all sorts of things, and one of them was his faults. He said that he was born with a quick temper, and was obliged to carry it around with him.
But one of his best friends said that he never heard Toussaint speak ill of anyone. If he could not say anything good, he was silent. “It seemed to be his object to forget all injuries.”
He was good at imitations when young, but gave it up when older. He also was good at playing violin for dances, and taught violin to a few boys.
He owned some apartment houses, and one of his old tenants described him as the “perfect gentleman,” to the point that his good points were almost hard to explain. His politeness was “the natural overflow… of his heart, and you no more thought of distrusting it than of failing to reciprocate it….”
One of his investments was in insurance companies, and therefore he lost a lot of money from New York’s 1835 fire. But it was remembered that when one friend’s house burned, he was the first one there to express sympathy, without a word of his own problems.
Toussaint was reluctant to speak of his political views on slavery or abolition. It’s scary to read his one comment on abolition, in a book published in 1853 — “[Abolitionists] have never seen blood flow as I have. They don’t know what they are doing.”
He did keep in touch with what was going on with Haiti, through letters from friends. He also got letters from all over America and Europe, including one from a Protestant woman saying that, whenever she visited a Catholic church for sightseeing, she would kneel and pray and remember “my own St. Pierre” back in New York.
His wife ended up dying before him, and it was a blow. Suddenly his friends saw him as old and feeble. But he kept up his charities as long as he could, walked to Mass (6 AM daily Mass) as long as he could, and died a happy death. One of his last comments was, “God is with me.”
His funeral was the funeral of a saint, with a High Mass and a full house, and his friends commented that they learned more about his charity work at his funeral than they had ever known about before. He got obituaries which were full of loving tributes to his greatness. It was a remarkably counterculture moment for the time.
This is a heck of a book, written with love, about a good man doing God’s work in a harsh world.